To Have or To Do? The Great Dilemma: Experiences Versus Things
“Life is about experience . . . you can’t hold onto everything.” — Sarah Addison Allen
Every human life is a mosaic of experiences, and we invariably leave trails of material objects in our wake. As humans, we constantly grapple with a fundamental dilemma: what brings us more happiness — acquiring tangible possessions or collecting intangible experiences?
Are we more fulfilled by the gleam of a brand new car or the glow of a sunset on a beach halfway around the world?
Do we prefer experiences or things?
Understanding the Allure of Material Possessions
Humans are naturally acquisitive beings. We derive pleasure and satisfaction from acquiring and owning things. Since time immemorial, tangible possessions have been seen as indicators of success and status. Having more or better material goods is often equated with being more successful in life.
Material possessions offer a sense of permanence and security that experiences, by their fleeting nature, can’t provide. Items like a home, car, or clothing allow for repeated use and long-term enjoyment. They represent our tastes, identities, and accomplishments.
Moreover, possessions can sometimes enable experiences. A car may facilitate a memorable road trip. A…
